I Asked My Mom 11 Intimate Questions Before It's Too Late

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    Kane from BuzzFeed try to ask his Chinese & Vietnamese mom intimate questions about love, how to be happy, and sacrifices of parenthood. This emotional interview might make you cry as she shares her wisdom, positive thinking, and real life story of immigration.
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Jaclyne Xjaclyne
Jaclyne Xjaclyne

God bless ur parents, ur mum z a strong happy soul, love her.

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Spy Sky
Spy Sky

I read intimate as " in mate" and I was like "oh no is someone going to jail?!😖"

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Sara M
Sara M

Who else has their throat choking up? 😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Alejandra Martinez
Alejandra Martinez

I CRIED THROUGH THE WHOLE VIDEO, f*ck

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kawaiinails
kawaiinails

Love herrr!

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Hannah May
Hannah May

This was beautiful ☀️

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Junior Dimas
Junior Dimas

It's my first time watching your mother's video and OMYGOOOD SHE IS SO CUUTE

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Jenny Kessler
Jenny Kessler

😭 This was such beautiful life lesson advice 💕

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DeAna Ross
DeAna Ross

My grandmother raised 15 children and she is gone now but she worked very hard to give my mother, aunts, and uncles a chance at a good life.

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Lim Leng Geok
Lim Leng Geok

Why is she speaking in Cantonese??

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Rahula Loh
Rahula Loh

I crying so hard inside.

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Kathryn Rosenthal
Kathryn Rosenthal

She has such a beautiful soul. This video literally brought me to tears.

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Itsme Hello
Itsme Hello

Wait .... OMG kane’s mum speak CANTONESE ?! I thought she is Vietnamese ?

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China Rodriguez
China Rodriguez

How come Kane's commentary has subtitles? He speaks perfect English! Haha

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Veroni Ka
Veroni Ka

What a great video! And really inspirational, too! Wish you the best. Pls take your mom on a trip

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Joelle Burke
Joelle Burke

Your mom is an inspiration. Hug her for me. :)

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Echo Sketching
Echo Sketching

That got me right in the feels... what a beautiful outlook on life ❤️

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Jasmine Smith
Jasmine Smith

I’m not crying. YOU’RE crying 😪

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Mylene Hobman
Mylene Hobman

Your mum is so precious.

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Kage Oashj
Kage Oashj

I aspire to be like her. She gives me hope for good people and loving moms 😔❤

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honey bunches of oats
honey bunches of oats

there are buckets of water coming out of my eyeballs

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Hannah R
Hannah R

Did Kane ever take his mom to china???? I need to know!!!!!!

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Grace S
Grace S

Thank you for making this video, my Mom passed away when I was 21, I’m 33 now and recently thought what it would be like to have an adult conversation with her like you and your Mom did. Her childhood might have had some similarities with your Mom, she was raised in the Philippines with 8 other siblings, moved to Canada and had kids, worked a ton of jobs to keep us fed. I was always curious how she could be so happy all the time, when life has so many struggles. I think your Moms words are very special and we can all learn from them. Much love to your wonderful Mom, you, and your family!

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Jessica McKay
Jessica McKay

😢❤️😊

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arnaldo j. gerena perez
arnaldo j. gerena perez

Take her to China and make a video

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traczebabe
traczebabe

Your parents are true Americans! They came here and their contribution to the United States is startling. They worked hard and raised their family who also contribute to our country and society. Thank you so much for sharing! ❤️

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Rebecca Ma
Rebecca Ma

we should make her a go fund me travel page

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vengification
vengification

I'm a 29 year old man who just cried to this. Great video and thank you and your mother for sharing.

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Zara Ortega
Zara Ortega

Her definition of happiness is the literally the best, i almost teared up😢😊😊😊

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Cydney Joy
Cydney Joy

This just brightened my day❤

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Aria'sDiaryTalk
Aria'sDiaryTalk

I could only wish for parents like this. I was raised without my dad and I met his at 6. I had a step dad but that was not good I got abused mentally and emotionally. And sexually by his son my older step broth no one belived me. I wish I had your mom and dad

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La Flaka Acabando
La Flaka Acabando

1:56 love thy neighbor And great things will happen

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Artic Penguin Nightcore
Artic Penguin Nightcore

Long live the Republic of Vietnam.

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Bruna Borges
Bruna Borges

It's 2 am, I have to go to work this morning and I just came to youtube to watch a video and fall asleep. Now I'm crying like a baby, thanks

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Jo li
Jo li

Who else understands Cantonese that his mom was speaking No one? OKAY HIT THE LIKE BUTTON

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Mabel Nwakaego
Mabel Nwakaego

This video made me really happy, I gotta help my mom achieve whatever dreams she has left !

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Hello Sky
Hello Sky

“I plant flowers for us to look at... when I see a flower bloom I am happy” Idk why that also works so beautifully as an analogy for how she got her children and raised them to be successful, nurtured them to bloom. *leaves room crying*

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ana // moonchild
ana // moonchild

what she said about working her entire life and working to provide her kids made my heart ache :

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Comical Wolfie
Comical Wolfie

Your mother is SO FRIKIN AWESOME AND CUTE!!!

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Tina Ismajli
Tina Ismajli

I want to give her a hug and thank her for the "happy" advise. Bless her soul. She is so sweet.

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Melissa de Groot
Melissa de Groot

CROWDFUNDING FOR KANE’s MOM TO GO TO CHINA MAKE IT HAPPEN

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Serena Currie
Serena Currie

Your mother is so pure. I believe a lot of people could learn from her.

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KhiemNadler
KhiemNadler

So your mom is Vietnamese and your dad is Chinese??

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vivi vthree
vivi vthree

i not crying ....someone is chopping onion beside me ...

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Robertking1996
Robertking1996

Oh Lord, I cried 3 times throughout this video. That was highly philosophical.

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Alex Baxter
Alex Baxter

This made me call my grandma up whos in another country and tell her i love her. Same with my parents. Thank you for that.

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Wai Wei Lum
Wai Wei Lum

Whoah~~ Your mom speaks cantonese too.

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Kay
Kay

“I tell you the true thing” So sweet!

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2011Antidote
2011Antidote

I think when you come from a very hard life, even the simple things can make one happy. Love your story about your mum eating the remaining rice with tea, mums will always put their children first. Most importantly is that you noticed what she has done for you, it would be horrible if you did not. Your mum is just wonderful, reminds me of my own Mother. Mums are truly the best!

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Gray the blind
Gray the blind

This is amazing! You should do something special for your mom!

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Shelley Berry
Shelley Berry

Sad. This made me cry.

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Olga Petrova
Olga Petrova

brought me to tears! your mum is very wise woman, she's literally spreads love around her, and I can feel it even just watching her on YouTube. it's so hard to us, who grew up in peace and wealth, to cherish and appreciate what we have. but your mum knows the price of these simple things - no war, enough and everyday food, warm home and no fear for the lives of your children... send you and your mum lots of love and wish you only good and fun travel to China!

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Nicole Sharuda
Nicole Sharuda

Her outlook on life made me cry. She’s a beautiful soul.

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Joelle
Joelle

Wow, there's amazing life lessons in there. Find happiness in the things around you, that's important. I love the video, thanks for sharing that moment with us

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ka mor
ka mor

shes the cutest

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Destiny Baker
Destiny Baker

Can’t wait to see when you surprise your mom with a trip to China one day! So much love in her heart

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bigsmilelife
bigsmilelife

You helped me, you have even no idea,thanks

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taekachuu !!
taekachuu !!

This was an emotional video, i learned a lot from this video. I’m definitely gonna have a deep conversion with my parents. I ain’t crying, it’s just this video is very helpful. When i’m older i’ll take my parents to a place where they can forget job, and just relax. Your mom is a very good person, she’s strong with a heart made of gold. She deserves all love !

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John Tedder
John Tedder

Are you single? Your a beautiful man.

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Christine valdez
Christine valdez

Don't look back. Just go on, go on. So wise. Your mom has it figured out! Thank you for sharing.

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William Wang
William Wang

why yall cutting onions here

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Safe Space ASMR
Safe Space ASMR

What a beautiful and wise lady. So much love and joy. Thank you for sharing ❤️

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Emily Y
Emily Y

Cherish your parents and loved ones! My mom passed away suddenly 6 years ago. I was 29 years old. She was my very best friend! I was with her almost every single day. I preferred to be with her and around her over everyone else in my life! I have 0 regrets! I just wish she was still here. She loved the simple things in life just like his mom does.

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Morgan Hubert
Morgan Hubert

I hope this woman can make it to China!

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Desiree T
Desiree T

This made me cry...

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The Fur Monsters
The Fur Monsters

Everything around us have the happy. :) Thank you mama, truer words have never been spoken. Thank you Kane for this incredibly moving testimony!

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Lynn N
Lynn N

Never heard of this dialect of Vietnamese before

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Katie Mckinney
Katie Mckinney

His hair looks soo good!

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D Moreno-Guzman
D Moreno-Guzman

Trumps America needs to see this. No wonder everyone loves your mom. She is beautiful.

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Tiến Đức Đinh
Tiến Đức Đinh

Hell yea, Kane’s mom like mixing Vietnamese and English when speaking...

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Solina Ngam
Solina Ngam

I wish I had asked my mom these questions before she passed away almost a year ago. This is really hitting me in an emotional way. Like your mother, my mom was also living during a war. She was born in Cambodia, but is Chinese, and during that time, she was facing the Khmer Rouge with communist leader Pol Pot. Almost went on a boat that had gotten bombed by the communist regime, but someone told her to go elsewhere. So hearing the struggles your mother faced and what she did to help you and your siblings get a better life than she had, really got me feeling super emotional because I remember my mom telling me stories of her hardships and how she wouldn't trade the world to get a better outcome.

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Elik Kay
Elik Kay

Now I get why my dad likes gardening so much. He would water the garden after work no matter how late. Please take care of your parents. My dad had CVA soon after retirement and it took that event for them to finally let go of the need to work and just enjoy retirement.

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Elizabeth Duecker
Elizabeth Duecker

L❤️VE her! So incredibly sweet and genuine. Give her a BIG hug from me.

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Malaika Durbin
Malaika Durbin

This was beautiful! Your mom is a very smart woman. She knows the value in life isn’t things but the people who you surround yourself with & the time you spend with them. ❤️❤️❤️

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Random Domino Guy
Random Domino Guy

Sad for Vietnamese people like me Edit nothing

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Sunnny Skye
Sunnny Skye

She’s incredible. Bless her heart

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sophia v
sophia v

The plant part got me in the heart. She's so precious

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Salted fish
Salted fish

Ik this is not related (Kane’s Cantonese is weird)

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Alix
Alix

Kane, I adore my mother aswell. You're mom is so real, adorable, and HAPPY. I teared up and laughed the whole video... I could watch you guys over and over. I enjoyed the old home videos too! I hope to see more of your parents in future videos! The love your parents share is rare and pure... I'm so happy other people comment about it!

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Archer Pondevida
Archer Pondevida

Kane’s mom letting him eat first and pouring tea into his leftovers for herself made me straight up cry. My mother would do the same when we were tight on money and I was very young in the Philippines. She’s pour in beef or chicken or fishbone broth into my leftover morsels of rice and that would be her breakfast and lunch for the day. She always told me I have to be full to think fast at school. This totally inspired me to give her a call and tell her I love her.

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Irmadiana Ardi
Irmadiana Ardi

Make love together 😂😂

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Youmna Badawy
Youmna Badawy

Make happy very easy... We just don't understand how someone who spent all their lives working and yet never complains. That's because happiness is simple. You can see that when she was showing her plants. No need for luxury, traveling, partying. Happiness is right there under your feet.

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Lalowa1
Lalowa1

His videos are the best!

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Dayana C
Dayana C

Your mom is so awesome ❤️😭 I love her advice at the end 🙏

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Erika
Erika

Can we start a go fund me so this amazing women can travel. She deserves it.

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Selena McRee
Selena McRee

Thank you for sharing your mom with us. ♥️

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Janelle C
Janelle C

Love your mom and fam they deserve all the happiness in the world!!!!

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Oh Yeah Yeah
Oh Yeah Yeah

I love her hardcore asian accent

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Tommo Kawaii
Tommo Kawaii

Kanes mum is such an inspiration I love her

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Forged in England
Forged in England

Why did I get emotional when she says she wanted to study real estate and showing her when she was young! Wow. I'm a 31 year old grown man god dammit. Powerful.

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Johnathan Yang
Johnathan Yang

I'm crying!!! THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL!

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Snowy Lee
Snowy Lee

Tears of happiness, the sacrifices our parents have been through for us back in the days. Nowadays they have it so easily, some have no respect or love for their parents!! Great story! Great reminder!!

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Tiffany Steckel
Tiffany Steckel

Your mom is such a joy. I love her outlook on life and what happiness is. She is what I want to be like. This video was beautiful❤️

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Expat In Spain
Expat In Spain

Tell your parents to come to Sevilla, Spain and I will show her around. Plus I know a girl who has a travel company here for Spain, Portugal and Morocco.

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Bearded Butcher
Bearded Butcher

These are the immigrants that America appreciates..

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unknownfancy
unknownfancy

Yes, we did take the time to listen, mom.

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Brittany
Brittany

My husband's family is Hmong Chinese. They grew up in Vietnam and fought in the war. He is first generation as well. My question is are you Hmong Chinese too?

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ʕ•ᴥ•ʔнαρρу ѕмιlєѕXX ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ
ʕ•ᴥ•ʔнαρρу ѕмιlєѕXX ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ

I'm Vietnamese And Chinese! :D

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Cassie Tina
Cassie Tina

This video makes me realize how much i appreciate life and my parents. Your mother does that effortlessly being happy

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ghada almagerhy
ghada almagerhy

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ all the love and respect for ur mom and her advices

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