I Asked My Mom 11 Intimate Questions Before It's Too Late

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    Kane from BuzzFeed try to ask his Chinese & Vietnamese mom intimate questions about love, how to be happy, and sacrifices of parenthood. This emotional interview might make you cry as she shares her wisdom, positive thinking, and real life story of immigration.
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J Puerto
J Puerto

Buzzfeed, send Kane's mother & father to China!

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Sarika Manepalli
Sarika Manepalli

She is just simple n awesome 😊

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Will Thomas
Will Thomas

Man I love this lady. She ain't got time to feel sorry and complain. She like "I got business to take care of"!!! Reminds me of my grandma.

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Daniel Nguyen
Daniel Nguyen

are y’all speaking viet? if so what dialect or region are y’all from?

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Gurpreet Rayat
Gurpreet Rayat

Your mother is such wonderful person. I find it when people go through a lot they don’t really care for certain things. To have all of you guys around is good enough. You being healthy and what they have is enough. I know this because my mother in law been through a lot and she doesn’t wish to travel she jus loves it the fact her son and I are together and we have our kids. But it’s pretty cool how your mom wants to travel. People like your mom appreciate the littlest things where as someone my age would just not care or just simply be selfish and want more. Thanks you for sharing this video.

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Brianna McCullough
Brianna McCullough

Vote for: Kane's video of his sending his parents to China alone on a planned tour!

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M K
M K

Your mom is G O L D E N ❤💛🧡

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Javaid Miah
Javaid Miah

Bom bom bom like that

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TheMemoryB
TheMemoryB

Kane, your mom is a treasure!  Love her!

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Ger Tori
Ger Tori

Ohh ok cool. I’m gonna keep crying in my corner. That was beautiful!

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leslie smith
leslie smith

Dude I'm crying

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ht wang
ht wang

mom speaks some Cantonese ?

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WhatsUp ItsIrwin
WhatsUp ItsIrwin

This video touched me i am from Vietnam and we had to fight for so long and won most of them 😭😭😭😅😅🤣🤣

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Keziah Yates
Keziah Yates

this made me cry. I so need to have this conversaition with my parerents especially my mum not beacuase its getting late because i feeql like i need to know her more

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Love Nurtures
Love Nurtures

I love her😍😍😍

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Nikita Luo
Nikita Luo

Watching this not only made me smile but made me cry as well... Wish everyone can live with those wisdoms and sense for life.

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chrisp manu
chrisp manu

my eyes😢😢😢

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Jesuszette De Guzman
Jesuszette De Guzman

You have an incredible mom. Drove me to tears. Happiness IS right in front of us and around us. Don't look too far away. :)

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noor sabarina
noor sabarina

Y even people dislike this video.. Its full of nice things abt love n life.. Shame on u people...

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Devin Mertz
Devin Mertz

I don't usually comment on videos but this is awesome. Her outlook on life is so pure. "Everything around us have the happy. You look, your mom's place, anywhere it has love. Don't think far away, far away, how you catch? You catch close. See?"... Damn, Mama Diep has me questioning my whole outlook on life right now 😅

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MiMi
MiMi

This makes me so happy, like tears of joy level happy. I appreciate my parents but this made me wonder if I know them really well, will definitely try something like this. We love Kane's mom!

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Victoria Ashlyn
Victoria Ashlyn

If Buzzfeed can sponsor a $300,000 bachelor party, Buzzfeed sure as hell should be able to sponsor a dream vacation for a hardworking mother.

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Nars Mas
Nars Mas

Shes so nice and cute i hope they would travel to beautiful places

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Albanian Photography
Albanian Photography

Love you , your family and your mom !

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Annalisa Martino
Annalisa Martino

This is the most pure thing ever and it makes me so happy 💗

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Nicola Carrington
Nicola Carrington

Your mum has such pure innocent happiness ❤️

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Sarah Wells
Sarah Wells

Such simple and profound wisdom. Touching.

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Luca Rebagliati
Luca Rebagliati

Your mum got me cry. She's so deep and sweet at the same time, i hope one day i'll can do a similar conversation with my parents too

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Vammi Uki
Vammi Uki

I want this to really reach everyone

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Caritina Lopez
Caritina Lopez

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griffin2417
griffin2417

I loved your Mom!

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Aly Austin
Aly Austin

This is adorable! You’re mom is so sweet

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encef
encef

Aw..

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juju nyb
juju nyb

Im blown away by your mom; what a loving, good person. We can all try to be like her.

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Jennifer Lewis
Jennifer Lewis

Wow your mum is inspiring to hear. Thank you for this video 😊

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shivering man
shivering man

5am and I did not at-watching this? that means this clip was great.

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oDeflect
oDeflect

your dad is like chinese bill murray

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tigress63
tigress63

Hopefully your family can take a (nuclear) family trip to China,  Your parents, yourself and your siblings (and spouses with kids).    My mom was very similar, always everything for others and nothing for herself.   She grew up in Germany during the war.   Similar circumstances.  In 2003 we went to Europe together.   Trust me it will be the best trip of your life and all of you will remember it forever.

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Nicole Beaver
Nicole Beaver

I love hearing them speaking in their native language. Honestly English is bland and boring. Why is it that so many white people decide that our language is superior over beautiful dialects, and impose it on others? I.e. "Speak American hurrrr durrrrrrrrr"

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Linda Murray
Linda Murray

You have a wonderful mother and family. Everything is for you children.... work and be happy

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pappysprite
pappysprite

What a wonderful family! So blessed

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Enkhtsetseg Vetsch
Enkhtsetseg Vetsch

She is so cute!

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Linda Tinah TV
Linda Tinah TV

She needs a mommy of the year award. Being a mother now i understand the depth of these sacrifices for your children. Amazing family.

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She Says
She Says

You are lucky, enjoy your mom. Make her happy go on a trip together. Even though shell be happy no matter what. Namaste

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I'll Be Your Pariah Here's A War
I'll Be Your Pariah Here's A War

How i wish i'd do this with my mum.Sadly,it'd be like speaking to a rock.

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MsProdigychild
MsProdigychild

What a beautiful video. God bless this family.

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Ameera Love
Ameera Love

Very smart and brave woman she is a great mother!!!!

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Sandrine Berre
Sandrine Berre

one of the best videos ive ever seen on youtube. Thank you.

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dgirl2021
dgirl2021

His mom is so caring and sweet, she made me cry 😭

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Mai Nagase
Mai Nagase

please come to Tokyo. Id love to show you two around.. I love this video!!!

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傑仔Ricky
傑仔Ricky

wait what, Vietnamese speak cantonese too ?!

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TWILIGHT BLOOM
TWILIGHT BLOOM

I just feel too privileged and spoiled now

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Kallol Das
Kallol Das

Your Mom is soo sweet! Always cherish her company!!

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Hadi masri
Hadi masri

My grandma had to raise 13 children, 12 girls and 1 boy. In the Middle-East during bad times.

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Beth Webster
Beth Webster

I love this.

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jay jay alipustain
jay jay alipustain

Dont look back, just go on and on♥️♥️♥️

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Brodey O'Brien
Brodey O'Brien

Your parents are superheroes

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mari reverend
mari reverend

hER COMMENT ABOUT THE PLANT SHAPED LIKE A TURTLE IS SO WHOLESOME

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jmturner04
jmturner04

Oh my heart. This was truly amazing.

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Edgar Rosario
Edgar Rosario

I needed this !!! Thank you so much !!!!

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Jose Encinas
Jose Encinas

She is a loving and wise woman. I have no idea why this video has 2.1K dislikes. Sour people. Blessings on your mom.

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Ingrid Carp
Ingrid Carp

I really enjoyed your interview with your Mom!!

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Brennen Clark
Brennen Clark

So cute omg ❤️

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Waukesha Mom
Waukesha Mom

Kane, thank you for doing this. Such a beautiful woman your mother is. This made me cry at 46 listening to her speak about just being happy. Being happy was never a thought of everyday til now.

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Terilyn Jackson
Terilyn Jackson

Damn it, who's chopping onions in here!

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Presious P
Presious P

This was so beautiful, it's crazy how I came across this video this is something I really needed to hear

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The Geek Monster
The Geek Monster

Wow, your parents argued three times a year? Three times a day for me lol. I sure wish I'd had an experience closer to yours.

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Lily Baca
Lily Baca

Who could dislike his video?? Kane’s mom is an angel. I just want to hug her ❤️

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MOWmom
MOWmom

Love love love this

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Nezuumi Lê
Nezuumi Lê

SHE IS GOING TO MAKE ME CRY

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Intelligent Duck
Intelligent Duck

Everyone make love together I love her so much

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Ultra Violet
Ultra Violet

"Far away cannot catch, and if far away happy you think upset" wow, that touched me. Happiness is something that you should carry with you,not a trip destination. Look around you. 😌

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Jennifer Miller
Jennifer Miller

She is so sweet! My mother has MS and dementia so this is beautiful to me. I was able to know her very well before she got sick and after the initial depression from losing that connection it did help to have asked her the important questions.

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Sarah Aslam
Sarah Aslam

be happy in the moment you are in, ever grateful, dont reserve your happiness for some future event. Make a schedule and dont waste time. Thats what i learnt from this video.

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Bronte
Bronte

Many people can learn a lot from Kane's mom. She is always living in the present by she treasuring each and every moment of her life that she can spend with her loved ones and the simple joys of life. My parents immigrated to Canada for my brother and I so we can have opportunities in our future. I am so privileged but I find myself always comparing myself to others and feeling entitled to things in life. It really puts things into perspective and I want to better myself everyday and be grateful for what I have.

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Shay Waff
Shay Waff

When she said "i plant flowers for us to look at. Isnt that for myself?" 😭😭😭 i lost it. Such a simple, pure soul. This woman is gold.

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Kristi Taga
Kristi Taga

Buzzfeed!!! Send her on a nice trip!

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Ruby Tillman
Ruby Tillman

You are so fortunate to have your mom. She is a treasure. I wish I had sat down and asked questions like these of my mother before she passed away. I hope she does get to visit China.

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Makeda Regassa
Makeda Regassa

You have siblings , do you guys not put money together and do things for them? My parents pretty much are retired cos we pay for everything together along with our bills. We probably get paid less than your siblings so I know it’s achievable. Treat your parents to a vacation .Teamwork! It’s what makes a family operate smoothly

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Celita D. P.
Celita D. P.

Tears... "everywhere you look at your mom's house you see love." She knows the true simple blessing of contentment and enjoying even small things. Your mom... is super spwcial. But you know that already. This video was a great idea. Now a video of you asking your dad or grandmother questions?

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David Johnson
David Johnson

I love your mom! 💛

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Dave Ángel de Gitanos
Dave Ángel de Gitanos

Your Mom is such a inspiration.....God bless her

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Robert La Mont
Robert La Mont

Very sweet. There are a lot of things I wish I had asked my parents.

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Fidel Muñoz
Fidel Muñoz

This was lovely!

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Heather Rodriguez
Heather Rodriguez

The fact that they put a comment with the username as “ JUNGKOOK IS WHIPPED “ 😂😂😂😂 LOVING IT 💜👏🏼

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holly shiteu
holly shiteu

lmao I saw an ARMYs comment at 0:29 but aside of that lets just say raising 9 kids in Vietnam especially during the war is really hard although I never been through stuff like that because I'm a 05's I still know that raising kids aren't easy and she needs to keep them alive. You need to worry about their food, health, activities and stuff. If something goes wrong one life is gone. Imagine working all day just got home and you still need to feed your kids and do the chores, it's tough. So cherish every moment you have now, be thankful to your parents or grandparents and tell them you love them

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HJWUALSM KANAKAM
HJWUALSM KANAKAM

I’m bawling my eyes out right now. Nobody will probably ever read this and I know I’ll never have the courage to tell this to my mom, but thank you. Thank you Mom for sacrificing yourself for me. For staying up all night to go to work. Thank you for always making sure I have everything I need. Thank you for supporting me, for loving me no matter who I was. You do everything you can to make me happy regardless of how you felt. And I just want to say I promise you I will try to return that. I love you so much, that my heart swells with joy when I’m around you. I want to be near you, next to you, all the time. You are my remodel. I hope that one day I can can as an amazing mom as you are. I love you.

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narisa alley
narisa alley

"Every one happy and make love together" OMG! 😂😂😂

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paigeedwards65
paigeedwards65

Why am I crying so much?!?!

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Vas Mária Maya
Vas Mária Maya

Thanks so much... It's beautiful...

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Nicholas Too
Nicholas Too

Respect

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Sophia Carmona
Sophia Carmona

omo i love kanes parents!!

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poppies128
poppies128

My mum never travels anywhere either and barely buys anything for herself and now she's retired and just likes pursuing her own hobbies at home. I get not wanting to rush after life and excitement. My mum has lived very simply but she's happier than those who chase after stuff.

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poppies128
poppies128

Also Kane is ridiculously good looking 😍

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T R
T R

I loved your video. I miss my mom...n pop. Asking those questions and listening are so important. My parents were very poor but came to the United States. I was raised in a very loving home. Listening to your mom speak of happiness and gratefulness rings true. It is because of struggle and loss that one can deeply appreciate even the small flowers budding and find joy in simple moments. She is an incredible lady. Blessed are all those unsung heroic moms that smile, sacrifice, raise good people through love and hard work.🤗😍

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Chelsea Ty KP
Chelsea Ty KP

her view on happiness 😭 the plant part was so pure aw i hope she gets to go on a vacation 💘

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SMarie
SMarie

"Catch close" ...Wise woman

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Lluvy Ng
Lluvy Ng

Wow what a loving and lovely mom!! Btw, the Cantonese parts are definitely the highlights lol

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Megami Tenshi
Megami Tenshi

I like her broken English

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SHEillaa
SHEillaa

She is very lovable :)

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slime Queen
slime Queen

I make live wit you father🤣😂

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